How A 5 Minutes Reading Do Wonders!

Starting my day at work with a 5-minutes reading…and guess what; I learn alot!

With just the slightest thought of reading some updates from a blog recommended by Hie, I ended up finishing the topic you wouldn’t believe I set my eyes upon: Parenting.

With each article revealed the diminutive activities done from infant to toddler but it never fail to bring beams to the mother’s eye…and myself too.

I’m astounded on how impactful the process of parenting change a person’s insights and deeds.

From the very first time they learn to turn, sit, crawl and babbling to the moment they attempt their first standing up debut, walking unsteadily and cry out ‘mama’ and 'papa'; it’s full of wisdom.

We might carelessly shrug it off as it might mean insignificant to us adult as we perform it effortlessly…but to them; it’s their FIRST TIME….It means WORLD to them…and our reaction towards their achievement will either boost or kill their fragile little esteem.

So much to learn from life…

If Only I'm A Dandelion...

Flaw makes us humane and imperfection perfected us…that will be what I always say…but when it’s my turn, would I be able to shrug it off as easily as a dandelion spreads its' windborne seeds? I have no answer…

A Sigh of Whisper...

The same old question with the same old answer...but somehow or rather this time I pay a lil' extra attention to the same old question asked...and ponder on it as well for quite sometime...

Could it be influence or own will; I don't have an exact answer...but the thought of it did curve a smile and frown the brows...for there are reasons to think for not only twice...

Maybe only the same subtle whisper can be heard after a long sigh...Whatever will be will be~

A New Year Ahead...

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Christmas is coming...

Let's recap on the happenings occured throughout 2009

The good, the bad, the delightful and the heartrending...the cheerful and cheerless episodes hurdling into our life for the past one year...

For the good; we treat as accomplishment as they are the milestones achieved and therefore give yourself a pat for the deeds done.

As for the bad; they are keepsake of experience as failures and mistakes are layers of foundation towards success.

Remember: A successful person is a result of eons of failures.

With this; we charge forward to a new fruitful year ahead with a recharged, revitalized and rejuvenated mind, body and soul in totality.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year :)

Just A Clip...

Laze around doing nothing; surfing while waiting for his game to finish...and as usual...fb-ing and that’s when I saw the clip...

Life is idiosyncratic and I never doubt of its miraculous existence. Sometime somewhere somehow you have been thinking that it will end the way you have always speculated, always dreamt of; but in real life things just ain’t going to be the way you have always wanted it to be…

Often enough in life, decision is just about making an action, getting a resolution or mouthing a statement; but people often overlook the fact that some lil’ decision we’ve made is going to affect the whole lifetime of ours…or maybe others too.

Sometimes we just never realize…with one turning…there the whole game of life altered. With one mistake done; no rectification could ever be done. With one decision made; all the moments shared together become irretrievable memories of eternity…memories with no common future in place…

Sometimes you just wonder; does it worth it? All the hardship, sweetness and thick and thin you’ve undergone together; washed down the drain due to slightest misunderstanding; a moment of frustration and a foolish act of ego-surrounded mind?

A clip worth watching…and a lesson worth to be remembered…

If You Were Me...

If being indifferent is not a good choice; what about craving for more?

Which is better; indifferent or demanding?

Which is bearable; apathetic towards disappointment or frowning over it?

Should I apathetically brush off the discontentment or stain my cheeks over it?

If you were me, which way to go? ...I wonder

If You Are To Pluck Roses, Get Ready To Be Pricked!

Every matter in life comes with an action with commitment needed and sacrifices anticipated. Should you think you are ready for the thing you set to do; get ready for the unexpected hurdles and either you overcome the hiccups with a great laugh or sulking and licking your wound for thing doesn’t turn out the way you expected. To think that things will always in favour of you, it will be a wishful and vain thinking just like hoping to strike a jackpot when you didn’t even pull the slot machine’s handle.

When your plan didn’t work out; cry a lil’ and get over it..it’s not the end of the world…betterstill; get a contingency plan! God granted us with a super-computerized brain not for it to get rusty nor rotten over the age but for us to fully utilize it throughout the entire lifespan. To think about it, how many of us have been using it anyway?

Put Thyself In Other's Shoes...

Have you ever seen people accidentally wounded themselves when doing some chores?

The moment when you see the scenario, what will be your expression?

What will be the first word escape your mouth? Could it be "Ouch"?

Well, try to imagine yourself having the wound upon you, will it be more intense than watching?

If the answer is YES, read on...if not...CLOSE THIS WEBSITE AS IT IS NOT MEANT FOR YOU!


Having a baby project of sweats and hardship owned by the special two suddenly being hijacked by third party is worse enough; not to mention when the third fella took all the credits as if she or he started the whole baby from stratch and dust...

Life's a pathetic joke when these kinda dramas are on the stage...and what can you do 'bout it? Nothing but laugh it off, shake 'em off...and continue to enslave yourself to every task possible hoping that someday somewhere somehow a significant one will see you; the tiny little potato who sculpts the whole mountain but was constantly granted a molehill...and from there with the slight hope that you'll be bequeathed with an on par recognition for your contribution and sacrifices for being behind the stage all these while...

...without having the vision actualized, all you can do is dream on and continue working as a slave...


Ying, I know and understand all the wisdow you are trying to bestow, but I guess it's just the hardtime like you say I need to endure in order to become the NEXT you. Don't worry, I'm still coping well and will continue doing the same till THE DAY...


All right!!! Enough sulking...time to get up and go heads on...starting a new day with brighter hopes and greater enthusiasm...Believe in thyself and nothing can beat thee!

The Recipe of Success...

Believing is the recipe of success. If you don’t, why bother attempt where you know you are doomed to fail anyway? For you never believe in succeed, why should success come to you?

Remember the aphorism, “If you fail to plan; you plan to fail” …Hereby I pirated the well-known proverb used and redefined it according to my personal belief, “If you fail in believing, you believe in failing.”

Thanks, my dear friend...for enlightening my shallow mind once again...for being there listening to my sulk with no hesitation, and for knocking some senses into this rock-made head belonged to a strong-will girl.

Will It Be My Body Or My Soul Plays The Trick?

Finally surrendered to the exhaustion in my body due to accumulated stress, hectic and the most important factor…the unexpected changes arisen week earlier. Maybe the body finally gets to know the word 'weary'…or maybe it’s a different story altogether.

Will it possibly be the soul and mind trying to shun away the current situation; denying the roadblock in the way, refuting those pebbles found along the long smooth winding road?

My mind started to boycott; thinking of having to work my ass off and even sacrificing weekends doing office work at home yet the pathway doesn’t seem promising…Instead of gearing ahead, I started to retrieve…rebelliously…inaudibly deny the arrangement set upon me…

Sigh…I wonder if this is just a temporary avalanche or a permanent catastrophe so long as I entrapped myself here? I wonder…

Living Up To My Preaches...

I do agree that we should not judge the book by its cover; still it is a fact that in psychological study, 93% of interaction is based on physical appearance and nonverbal cues a.k.a body language. To me, first impression is the point of winning a heart and that is why I always try my very best in ensuring the first impression I send out will win hearts.

I’m now very much into practicing whatever I preach; for the reason that professionalism is where I start and where I will advance forth. It’s really a wonder to me when there are people in my line still couldn’t grasp the essence of it though the highly respected veteran status they have acquired through their years of battling in the corporate world. Sad, huh? Well, that’s life. And what we can do with it will be setting it as an example which we shall never apply into our principle of life; a road not taken...ever.

From there, it’s the real beginning of self-actualization and discovery...

Ideas Of The Universe Are At Your Feet...Waiting For You To Exploit

2 days 1 night in Port Dickson this time around is quite fruitful, I guess. Ample of time with no room to spend is indeed a mind torturing deed. After a while of being an amateur photographer, I started to sit down under the tree and observed my fellow colleagues happily struggling with the ‘fun’ games created by team builders.

The convivial breeze from the sea, the ever sunny sky glowing upon the woodland; a perfect ambience for generating ideas and welcoming inspirations. That was the moment it stroke me…Why sit here and do nothing? You have the perfect setting to release your words into a memorable work…and that’s when I started to blog. I took out my pen and notepad and minutes later, inks started to swamp the notepad on my hands.

To tell the truth, all the ideas to write, issues to contemplate on, matters to be commented on suddenly just inundated my mind, each trying to prove that they are worthy to be the first priority in my latest blog. The sensation was just inexpressible… having the ideas of the universe in your head without the need to crack the skull thinking of what to write!

As what the title insinuates, the ideas of the universe are at your feet…just waiting for you to exploit.

Fairytale About You & Your Secret Admirer...

Did you ever dream of having a secret admirer in your life? Well, I did. When I was young, I often imagined when I finally step into a career world, I would have a secret admirer carrying a torch for me; secretly yet meticulously shower his attention towards my need.

I would always dreamt to receive tiny weeny cards on my table, maybe some bonbons or even suprise, a bouquet of purple roses smiling sweetle at my workstation; ready to embrace the bolt of the blue expression of their beloved owner!

I still remembered during schooldays, whenever there is a gift exchange or gift delivery campaign happening during Valentine's, Christmas and other occasions, every girl will be anticipating to receive gift from a special someone or...from a secret admirer. The moment your name is being called to receive a gift from the despatch, the pleasure is totally beyond words.

If the sender happened to be your friend, you will feel their warmest care. And if the person turned out to be your special someone, then love is in the air...And when you received a gift from a total stranger...that is when the magic sets in.

You start to hallucinate...dreaming of the slight possibilities of having a prince in the knight armour riding on a white horse to ask your hand in matrimony. What a perfect fairytale to come true...

Well, I admit that I still have the dream lingering on...what about you?...

Do We Have The Call?...

Life is indeed a journey towards discovery. Unlike Hong Kong movie series, one can never predict what will happen next. Lately, things have been revolving around. Good and bad, mind-soothing and heart-aching events knocked on the door simultaneously, caught me by surprise. It convinced me of the power of Mighty God ~ where we are just His follower who follow every destiny which He has lay ahead for us. We are just the tiny little spark of dust living in a boundless galaxy...where things are just not beyond our control.

What else are we left to control? Yes. There is one thing we can take full control of~ The way we lead the path!

One may treat the issue/problem faced as a hindrance and sulk and whine and nag and complain and escape from it...and you never grow out of it. It will always be a hindrance.

Or you may treat it as a challenge, a test from God ...where you pray for answer, you think for solution, you undertake the obstacle and you brace yourself for the outcome ~ and if you failed, you learnt a lesson but if you succeed, you gain an experience. And there you are...unlocked another mistery in your chapter of life.

Yes or No, 'To Be Or Not To Be', ... you have the call!

Take Some Time Off...

In our journey of a lifetime, it is rare if not impossible to meet with someone who can enjoy their own sweet time while pursuing their lifetime goals. If I were to visualize the journey, it would have to be a race where we seldom stop to take a deep breath before continuing the race again. In work, in romance, in family and in life; we are always in a rush as there are eons of things to be completed.

Due to this, we simply neglected the joy, the involvement and the fun in the process of getting jobs done. The best phrase to describe the phenomenon ~ Passing violets looking for roses.

So today, try to take some time to walk slowly, bath passionately, munch steadily,sleep soundly and breathe deeply. You'll be amazed with how enjoyable it feels!

Stop by the garden and smell the flower~
Life could never be much better.