Put Thyself In Other's Shoes...

Have you ever seen people accidentally wounded themselves when doing some chores?

The moment when you see the scenario, what will be your expression?

What will be the first word escape your mouth? Could it be "Ouch"?

Well, try to imagine yourself having the wound upon you, will it be more intense than watching?

If the answer is YES, read on...if not...CLOSE THIS WEBSITE AS IT IS NOT MEANT FOR YOU!


Having a baby project of sweats and hardship owned by the special two suddenly being hijacked by third party is worse enough; not to mention when the third fella took all the credits as if she or he started the whole baby from stratch and dust...

Life's a pathetic joke when these kinda dramas are on the stage...and what can you do 'bout it? Nothing but laugh it off, shake 'em off...and continue to enslave yourself to every task possible hoping that someday somewhere somehow a significant one will see you; the tiny little potato who sculpts the whole mountain but was constantly granted a molehill...and from there with the slight hope that you'll be bequeathed with an on par recognition for your contribution and sacrifices for being behind the stage all these while...

...without having the vision actualized, all you can do is dream on and continue working as a slave...


Ying, I know and understand all the wisdow you are trying to bestow, but I guess it's just the hardtime like you say I need to endure in order to become the NEXT you. Don't worry, I'm still coping well and will continue doing the same till THE DAY...


All right!!! Enough sulking...time to get up and go heads on...starting a new day with brighter hopes and greater enthusiasm...Believe in thyself and nothing can beat thee!

The Recipe of Success...

Believing is the recipe of success. If you don’t, why bother attempt where you know you are doomed to fail anyway? For you never believe in succeed, why should success come to you?

Remember the aphorism, “If you fail to plan; you plan to fail” …Hereby I pirated the well-known proverb used and redefined it according to my personal belief, “If you fail in believing, you believe in failing.”

Thanks, my dear friend...for enlightening my shallow mind once again...for being there listening to my sulk with no hesitation, and for knocking some senses into this rock-made head belonged to a strong-will girl.

Will It Be My Body Or My Soul Plays The Trick?

Finally surrendered to the exhaustion in my body due to accumulated stress, hectic and the most important factor…the unexpected changes arisen week earlier. Maybe the body finally gets to know the word 'weary'…or maybe it’s a different story altogether.

Will it possibly be the soul and mind trying to shun away the current situation; denying the roadblock in the way, refuting those pebbles found along the long smooth winding road?

My mind started to boycott; thinking of having to work my ass off and even sacrificing weekends doing office work at home yet the pathway doesn’t seem promising…Instead of gearing ahead, I started to retrieve…rebelliously…inaudibly deny the arrangement set upon me…

Sigh…I wonder if this is just a temporary avalanche or a permanent catastrophe so long as I entrapped myself here? I wonder…

Living Up To My Preaches...

I do agree that we should not judge the book by its cover; still it is a fact that in psychological study, 93% of interaction is based on physical appearance and nonverbal cues a.k.a body language. To me, first impression is the point of winning a heart and that is why I always try my very best in ensuring the first impression I send out will win hearts.

I’m now very much into practicing whatever I preach; for the reason that professionalism is where I start and where I will advance forth. It’s really a wonder to me when there are people in my line still couldn’t grasp the essence of it though the highly respected veteran status they have acquired through their years of battling in the corporate world. Sad, huh? Well, that’s life. And what we can do with it will be setting it as an example which we shall never apply into our principle of life; a road not taken...ever.

From there, it’s the real beginning of self-actualization and discovery...

The Burden Unburdened...

Think this is not dedicated to you,
don’t read!

Think this is mushy,
don’t look!

Think you don’t like this,
get lost!

And if you like it,
thanks a lot!

Back home exhausted; spiritually and mentally challenged with unexpected tragedy over my possession. With the mind bewildered with the oncoming compensation and workloads due to the loss and ex cetera; I went home.

When I opened the door to our room, there he is, grinning ever-widely as if nothing had happened, though he received the sad news from me much earlier in the day. Looking at my pathetic face, he tried every methods he ever known of to make the frown fades away; from tickling to gnawing; silly face to childish grin...and eventually carries me on his back and told me he’s going to bear the consequences with me.

When I told him there’s no such need; the following are his words, “You’re my burden...and I’ll carry you as we move on...”. Not the aid and not the promises...but the simple words and sincere gestures...unburdened all the burdens...and made me never regret for loving him till the end...

A Friend In Need Is A Friend Indeed!

If I were to describe what a day it has been, I would probably used the new word I invented; “fuckinlicious”…sorry dear fans…the author is trying to de-stress here today so please don’t mind about the words starting with A*, S* and F*.

Early morning was presented with a group of attendees who turned out to be absentees for my workshop and forced me to cancel my class; followed by a gift where the desk phone just happily went kaput. When I thought nothing else could have gone wrong, ta-da…biggest surprise in my entire short-lived career walkway… a missing lappy!!!

How wonderful life can play tricks on you…for better or worse…even it’s not April’s Fool…as if your beloved mother just gave birth to you for them to party on you… and you can never demand anything from life itself…it was just the perfect bully of lifetime.

As it was considered as my own negligence for leaving it on desk during lunchtime, I assumed to bear the consequences, unwillingly but to give in. Being a trainer who doesn’t practice what I preach made me shameful enough to defense myself further on.

Just as I was at the pitfall; the sonorous valley of despair; some voices echoing through and stroked my heart. Simple whispers of concern, stretches hands of help; earnest compassionate deeds with devoted relieves offered.

What else could a person asked for when he or she is in trouble; people around them eagerly came to help rather than holding back themselves? What else is more touching than having someone to back you up when you are about to fall? And what else could be better when you’ve found sincere hearts amidst a long frozen-hearted society?

Dear friends,

Thank you all for your concerns and offers of help...It really meant a lot to me and finally today, I’ve grasped the lateral meaning of “A Friend In Need Is A Friend Indeed”.